Have you ever picked a “Word for the Year”? I came upon this idea a few years ago. At the time, it seemed like I was reading a lot about picking out a word or phrase to embody what you envisioned for your life for the upcoming year. I’ve been thinking about it for a while and was having trouble coming up with just the right word or phrase. All the words I came up with, such as order, action, decide, now, good habits, just seemed to be too negative. They were all meant to fix a defect. That seemed a bit negative and perhaps not the best way to approach the new year.
While discussing the topic with friends, I finally settled on “pointy end first”. This comes from a story Becky Rule told at a conference I attended a few years ago. Pointy end first refers to the pointy end of the rowboat. I won’t try to recount Becky’s story, but you might find it in one of her books. She was relating it to her life as a writer. Apparently, she spent some time writing a novel since that’s what serious writers did. She eventually realized that she wasn’t a novelist. She’s a short story writer, a teller and reteller of tales, a performer and an inspirational speaker. By working in the direction of her skills and interests, she’s carved out a career for herself.
My idea for the year is still a little vague, but I think “Pointy End First” is going to help me row in the direction of my skills, talents and interests. I have a tendency to do things the hard way and I’m thinking this will help me be more aware of my choices.
If you’d like to read more about the concept of a word for the year, check out this from Christine Kane.








